I love reading books about people with major challenges in their lives because it makes me feel like I don’t have any worries in the world compared to them.

For example, Montel Williams has had a very successful life as a talk show host for many years, and has even had a few movie roles.

You would think, “What problems could he possibly have?”

Well, about ten years ago, he was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis, a major debilitating and painful disease of the central nervous system with no known cause and no cure. The symptoms so painful that he attempted to take his own life by jumping in front of a car. His doctor told him to quit his show and any other activities, so he could prepare for the end of his life.  He actually wrote several books.

This is from his 8th book, which came out earlier this year. In it, he talks about how to handle despression, and also how his own diet and exercise plan helps make living with his condition more tolerable. 

Introduction

This book is about your happiness: how to understand it, how to cultivate it, and how to achieve it in your life.

I wrote this book because I am an expert on what depression and sadness feel like. You may be, too; you may feel overwhelmed or helpless, and you may have no one to turn to who understands your suffering.

Then I wrote this book for you. I’ve learned some amazing things about happiness that I want to share with you.

If you’re not depressed, but you’re just interested in the idea of being happier, I wrote this book for you, too.

The world is filled with narratives of personal depression. Many of these books have a common theme: depression really, really hurts. And there are countless books on happiness, too. But in this book I’m going to focus specifically on what you can do to reduce your sadness and/or depression and increase your happiness over the long term—based on my experience, based on the greatest wisdom of the ages, and based on the latest, most exciting medical and scientific breakthroughs.

In researching this book, my coauthor, Bill Doyle, and I reviewed three thousand years of human thought on human happiness, including the ancient Greek and Roman thinkers, Hebrew, Hindu, and Buddhist texts, the New Testament, the Koran, and the writings of the great minds of literature and psychology.

We reached out and picked the brains of some of the greatest research scientists, medical doctors, psychologists, and psychiatrists in the world today, including experts working in two exciting new fields: “happiness research” and “positive psychology.” We read hundreds of their most fascinating research reports and we discussed their findings with them.

And I have some wonderful news for you.

There are paths that you and I can take that can bring us through the forest of depression and sadness, and lead us toward the sunlit fields of emotional well-being, happiness, and joy.

I will take you on a journey to the brightest and darkest places of my life, and my experiences with happiness, anger, achievements, crises, depression, drugs, and therapy.

I will take you on a Journey of the Mind, a tour of the Emotional State of the Union today: America’s happiness, depression, medication, therapies, and trends, the big issues and controversies, and the best medical and scientific expert opinions.

I will take you on a Journey of the Body: the quest for emotional wellness through physical joy and the exciting new developments suggesting how exercise and diet can affect and improve emotional well-being, by elevating mood; by reducing stress, anxiety, and depression; and by increasing physical and emotional happiness.

And I will take you on a Journey of the Soul: the quest for spiritual happiness and how spiritual religious well-being is intertwined with emotional health.

Finally, I will tie it all together with the Living Well Emotionally Well-Being Program, a comprehensive program of insights, options, exercises, and ideas for achieving true joy and lasting emotional health.

In the course of my life, I have learned seven interrelated insights that changed my life for the better, and I believe they can change yours, too:

1. You own the definition of you, and you control the power of your own happiness. You are who you think you are, and you are as happy as you think you can be.
2. The power to conquer sadness and depression, and achieve happiness, lies inside you. Therapists and medications and external forces can make a difference, but the ultimate power belongs to you, nobody else. You are the master of your emotional destiny.
3. Roughly 50 percent of your happiness is genetic and 10 percent is based on your life circumstances, but you can use simple techniques to boost the whopping 40 percent that lies in your direct control, and thereby achieve significant increases in your emotional well-being.
4. Just as your perceptions of events can trigger downward spirals into depression, you can use positive emotions to ignite magnificent upward spirals of happiness, to heights of emotional thriving and flourishing.
5. The way you treat your body with your diet and exercise can have a sharp positive impact on your happiness.
6. The way you treat your soul with your spiritual journeys can have a sharp positive impact on your happiness.
7. With the proper understanding, tools, and practice in your daily life, you can achieve lasting increases in your happiness.

You and I deserve a life of true happiness and lasting joy.

There are doorways of happiness that lie within your grasp everywhere, every day, every second of your life.

Let’s open them up together—right now.

deletereply rosiefielding2 wrote on Sep 25, ’09 sounds like a good book and  very inspiring too Rosiex

deletereply mellajenn wrote on Sep 25, ’09 He is very inspiring…I really liked the second video..thanks!

deletereply nemo4sun wrote on Sep 25, ’09 i think it is also important to remember just as sorrow never really leaves us ~ neither does happiness

editdeletereply lauritasita wrote on Sep 25, ’09 nemo4sun said i think it is also important to remember just as sorrow never really leaves us ~ neither does happiness That is so beautifully said. It should be in his book. Thanks.

deletereply nemo4sun wrote on Sep 25, ’09 *blush*

deletereply sistahpoet wrote on Sep 25, ’09, edited on Sep 25, ’09 BEAUTIFUL AS ALWAYS..EVERYTHING YOU WRITE..OH MY GOODNESS, THIS IS GREAT..DO YOU THINK YOU HAVE ANYTHING FROM SAM COOKE?  MY FATHER DIED THREE YEARS SUNDAY..DO YOU HAVE ANYTHING TO PLAY FOR ME?

deletereply caffeinatedjo wrote on Sep 25, ’09 I knew he had been diagnosed with MS but I was not aware of his books.  This one looks like a good read.  Thanks, Laura.  You always give such good information in your blogs.

deletereply gypsy4you wrote on Sep 25, ’09 Excellent post!

editdeletereply lauritasita wrote on Sep 25, ’09 sistahpoet said DO YOU THINK YOU HAVE ANYTHING FROM SAM COOKE? MY FATHER DIED THREE YEARS SUNDAY..DO YOU HAVE ANYTHING TO PLAY FOR ME? Yes, Sistahpoet, I love Sam Cooke, too! I did a post for you: http://lauritasita.multiply.com/journal/item/1480/A_Tribute_to_Sam_Cooke_for_Sistahpoet_

editdeletereply lauritasita wrote on Sep 25, ’09 caffeinatedjo said You always give such good information in your blogs. Thank you so much, Jo. You can also find his books at your local library.

deletereply vickiecollins wrote on Sep 28, ’09 I never cared for his television show..always seemed to the worst sort of pandering to the lowest common denominator…even worst than Jerry Springer, who claims nothing else…while Montel claimed (in my opinion) to really care.  I never believed he did.  But if his health issues have brought him to a new awareness I am glad. And of course I am sorry he is in pain and bad health and glad he found a way to make it a bit better for himself.

deletereply skeezicks1957 wrote on Oct 1, ’09 I am sorry to hear he has ms and glad to hear he is dealing so well with it.